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Why is asking for help so hard?

Some people seem to do it naturally; others become a pest because they’re always asking for help when they should know how to do it themselves. But, as research and studies show, the majority of us hesitate to ask for help when we really need it. We wait until we have no choice and the problem has become so much larger.

Yet, people are surprisingly willing to help. Studies tell us that people are 48% more willing than expected to help complete strangers.

Asking for help has proven benefits, writes Wayne Baker, Ph.D., is a professor at the University of Michigan’s Ross School of Business, and author of All You Have to Do Is Ask. In an article for SHRM, Baker lists several including contributing to the success of new hires, relieving stress, better job performance and contributing to innovation and creativity.

In light of all that, why don’t more of us ask our co-workers for help? Baker says there are 8 main reasons:

  1. We underestimate other’s willingness to help. We fear being rejected.
  2. An ingrained sense we need to solve our own problems.
  3. The social costs of asking for help; being perceived by others as weak or incompetent.
  4. The work culture is such that it actually is unsafe to admit you need help.
  5. The organizational structure makes it difficult to know whom to turn to for help.
  6. We’re not clear what help we need or how to ask for it.
  7. We worry we haven’t earned the privilege — built up the “credits” — to ask.
  8. We don’t want to appear selfish.

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Jun 6, 2023

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Jun 6, 2023

The ‘Radical Reinvention’ of Human Resources

Now is the time for a “radical reinvention of human resources,” declares a report from IBM’s Institute for Business Value.

Businesses are adapting to the rapidly and dramatically changing world, says the report, prefacing the findings and recommendations from a survey of more than 1,500 HR executives from a variety of industries.

How they engage with employees must also change. “Enterprises now must become inherently humanized, build engagement with remote employees, foster trust in uncertain times and cultivate a resilient, diverse workforce capable of facing whatever the future may hold.”

This, says the report, is HR 3.0.

HR thought leader Josh Bersin, who collaborated with IBM on the report, explains what that means in his introduction:

“Traditional HR 1.0 departments focus on compliance, administration, and highly efficient service delivery.

“HR 2.0 teams move toward integrated centers of excellence, and focus on training and empowering business partners to deliver solutions at the point of need.

“HR 3.0, which only 10 percent of companies have achieved, turns HR into an agile consulting organization, one that not only delivers efficient services, but also practices design thinking to push innovative solutions, cognitive tools, and transparency into the organization.”

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The report found substantial agreement among the surveyed executives on the key ingredients of HR 3.0, but uncertainty among them about how to evolve their operation. Providing that guidance is the essence of the report.

After studying multiple HR practices, Bersin and IBM identified 10 “Action Areas” drawn from what the most successful companies are doing. “Our analysis has identified ten priority Action Areas critical to the HR 3.0 model. The Action Areas span the breadth of the human resources function, in some cases wholly reinventing traditional people practices.”

These 10 are:

  1. Measure employee performance continuously and transparently
  2. Invest in the new role of leadership
  3. Build and apply capabilities in agile and design thinking
  4. Pay for performance — and skills — in a fair and transparent way
  5. Continuously build skills in the flow of work
  6. Design intentional experiences for employees
  7. Modernize your HR technology portfolio
  8. Apply data-driven insights
  9. Reorient and reskill your HR business partners
  10. Source talent strategically

Though few companies are on the path to 3.0, those that don’t begin to evolve will be left behind.

“Even as leading companies transform their HR model, it’s clear HR 3.0 is not a destination, just a way station. The world is changing too quickly to allow even a hint of complacency,” the report concludes.

“As we continue to face unprecedented opportunities to build better businesses and a much better world, an HR 4.0 will evolve as a model to help us keep doing just that.”

Image by David Mark

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