06Jun

When situations are uncertain and unpredictable, both basic human instinct and management training can cause leaders to delay action and downplay the threat until the situation becomes clear. Often, delaying and downplaying is done out of fear of taking the wrong steps or from the desire to ease anxiety. Many leaders have learned living through a pandemic for the last year that behaving in this manner, even if it is with good intentions, can mean quickly falling behind in addressing a crisis.

There have been many examples of people stepping up and leading with courage in the last year. But what exactly is required of leader in a time of crisis? What can we learn from them?

A recent article from Harvard Business Review outlined 4 lessons for leaders in a novel crisis:

  1. Act with urgency
  2. Communicate with transparency
  3. Respond productively to missteps
  4. Engage in constant updating

It takes a lot for a leader to fight against the natural human reaction to a crisis, which is to move forward with caution and delay action, but it can be done. At the core of all the lessons – being decisive, honest, and able to iterate and update – is one truth: great leaders lead with empathy.

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Don’t Be Afraid to Ask For Help

Why is asking for help so hard?

Some people seem to do it naturally; others become a pest because they’re always asking for help when they should know how to do it themselves. But, as research and studies show, the majority of us hesitate to ask for help when we really need it. We wait until we have no choice and the problem has become so much larger.

Yet, people are surprisingly willing to help. Studies tell us that people are 48% more willing than expected to help complete strangers.

Asking for help has proven benefits, writes Wayne Baker, Ph.D., is a professor at the University of Michigan’s Ross School of Business, and author of All You Have to Do Is Ask. In an article for SHRM, Baker lists several including contributing to the success of new hires, relieving stress, better job performance and contributing to innovation and creativity.

In light of all that, why don’t more of us ask our co-workers for help? Baker says there are 8 main reasons:

  1. We underestimate other’s willingness to help. We fear being rejected.
  2. An ingrained sense we need to solve our own problems.
  3. The social costs of asking for help; being perceived by others as weak or incompetent.
  4. The work culture is such that it actually is unsafe to admit you need help.
  5. The organizational structure makes it difficult to know whom to turn to for help.
  6. We’re not clear what help we need or how to ask for it.
  7. We worry we haven’t earned the privilege — built up the “credits” — to ask.
  8. We don’t want to appear selfish.

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